Răspuns:
Decisions are those significant foundations of life which determine our future. One can seldom return and change the decisions made in the past. The people should always know the outcomes which would happen after the decision being made. A person should be confident enough while making a decision and they should be firm while making decisions so that they are not easily influenced by others.
Situation faced by me :-
Eighth standard just passed with fun and amusement, and the teachers were very disappointed to see such a drastic change in my academics and behavior. They consulted my parents about this and wanted them to have a discussion with me about this.
I had a good habit of reading all the chapters of english beforehand along with my father and prepare an analysis for each chapter. My father gave me the example of Robert Frost's "The road not taken" and told me about the importance of choices in our lives, he wanted me to know how crucial the choices are in one's life especially in terms of academics. I was in a dilemma as I neither wanted my career to be spoiled nor lose my friendship with my best friends, but as the narrator I had to choose one as, one can seldom undo the circumstances gone by in his or her life.
I consulted the teachers and they even told me the essential worth of friendship. They told me that friendship is of no use if the friend itself guides you on the wrong path. True friendship is when the true friend focuses on the bad aspects of his or her partner and try to change and improve them.
I understood there and then the importance of this choice in my life and choose my career as my only priority towards success. I am greatly satisfied on seeing the result as both me and my friends are now focusing only on our studies. Had I been so ignorant towards this choice, I would have surely spoiled my and my friends' career. I am too happy as by leaving the friendship with my friends, they have also got an opportunity to start a new company.
Choices really determine our future. It is just on our sternness and seriousness while making our decisions which would lay the foundation stones towards our success.
Now the question which arises here is should people regret on their decisions. The first and the foremost thing is to make the decisions wisely but if the situation is totally opposite the people should never regret, they should always move on and should develop interest in the work which they are doing. By regretting, the people cannot go back to the past and change their decisions.
So, by making good decisions in our life without being influenced by others, we can make our life a better one and do the things which we want to do
